The new normal? Weaves; Butts, Boobs

The Ladies of Madison returns this fall with brand new episodes. We have a very interesting topic on plastic surgery and if women are being pressured based on the images we see to fit into a certain look. From extreme weaves to eyelashes to gluteoplasty women are getting it all. Sometimes we have to ask why and why now? What are the reasons that everyone in the club looks like a video vixen nowadays? Are we really that insecure or are we doing all this to invoke the attraction of men. A lot of men I have talked to on my show, feels like its too extreme and they prefer the woman that isn't heavily made up with weaves to their buttocks.  So back to my question; why? A lot of women are insecure and feel that these enhancements are necessary. I feel it's ok to enhance your features but you should maintain your identity. We see all of Hollywood and the many reality show stars and try to emulate what we see instead of being authentic.  Although men are physical soon they see past the aesthetics and attempt to focus on the women herself. Don't believe the hype about finding a rapper or ball player and living happily ever after.  It was interesting to hear the women on the panel and audience talk about the reasons they feel they need to look a certain way.  As women we need to offer more than a pretty face and huge assets. We need to have some substance and class if we want to attract a decent mate. If not you will be attracting men that only want to have sex with you, and that always has an expiration date.  New season starts the first Thursday in October @10:00 pm on local Bcat channels and streaming www.bricartsmedia.org. Visit our Facebook page or tweet us.

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Is he a good man? Episode 2

The Ladies of Madison Avenue: From ex to the next............

The Ladies of Madison Avenue: From ex to the next............: Are you a serial dater or relationship person? Do you need a man in order to feel complete? If so this blog post is for you. After a relatio...

From ex to the next............

Are you a serial dater or relationship person? Do you need a man in order to feel complete? If so this blog post is for you. After a relationship ends how much time do you actually take to exhale before moving on? There is definetly time needed to date yourself.  You have to reflect on what went wrong more important reflect on who you are.  Sometimes when we get so used to caring for our partners we lose ourselves in the process.  We carry baggage from unresolved issues without ever really resolving things. We compare our old partners to the new people we may come across.  There is no way to actively have a relationship with someone until you know what it is like to have a relationship with yourself.  Make yourself available to you. What that means is take time out for you without anything to cloud your emotional being and sex is included.  Sex with an ex is never really a good thing because you arent really moving on are you?  How can you move on or even know if you may want to try again with this person if your vision is being clouded by sex.  Being single is not the end of the world look at it as a hibernation period with yourself.  Another secret a man is not going to complete you.  As women we need to learn to be complete and happy within ourselves and only when this happens will you be able to share your light and love with a partner.  Before you move on to the next take time out for you!

Are men driving heterosexual women to lesbian relationships?

What drives women to have lesbian encounters? New Season 2 episode 2

The new episode of Season Two of the Ladies of Madison Avenue was a hit! We really got in depth with our special guest discussing same sex cheating. We heard from a lesbian woman and her take on female relationships with heterosexual women.  We discussed the fact that the women she has been with were women that had men or were curious or bisexual.  The women talked about the fact that if you have one or two encounters it doesn't make you bi-sexual. We explored the fact that sex with anyone is based on attraction and in my opinion I think if you have an attraction to a woman and want to take it to the next phase of sleeping with her then you are bi-sexual. 

People don't like labels and don't want to be put in specific titles when it comes to this.  We talked about men being selfish and not taking care of their woman's needs on all levels not just sex.  In some instances this pushes women to explore their sexuality with the same sex.  But again I believe a woman's choice has nothing to do with her partner, its her choice based on what's in her heart and who she is attracted to. 

Thanks to everyone that tuned in to us on Brooklyn Public Access and look for this episode next week on YouTube @theladiesofmadisontv/YouTube.

Please join the conversation I am eager to hear what men and ladies think.

Real Ladies talking about Hot Topics!

Does the 90 day rule still work?

Are you apart of the 70 %?

Being single is trying enough but when you are part of a percentage in the African American community the numbers can be disparaging! 70 % of Black women are single. On of my rationales is that there are first more women than men on the planet. The numbers are alarming because as Black women we tend to date within our race. While Black men are in demand by all races of women. We interviewed some men on our panel and they commence to saying it's our fault. They say we are too strong and we look down on our Black men when we reach a certain status. That cannot be further from the truth. One Black man told me he only dates latino women because he doesn't have to deal with our so called attitudes. Needless to say he ended up breaking up with this Spanish woman because of jealous insecurities. When will Black men realize women are women no matter what race and we all have a common goal! Love, family and security.  Stay tuned tomorrow when we look at more stats and get some male feedback! Check out the Ladies of Madison Talk Show on YouTube and Bcat Public Access TV!

The Ladies of Madison Avenue Face Off Single & Successful Part 2

New Season on Youtube and Public Access

New Show now on Youtube Ladiesofmadisontv Season 2 Show #1

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The Ladies of Madison Avenue: Turning up the heat in the bedroom

The Ladies of Madison Avenue: Turning up the heat in the bedroom: A popular question that our female audience has been asking us has been, if your mate asked you if you and him could participate in three so...

Turning up the heat in the bedroom

A popular question that our female audience has been asking us has been, if your mate asked you if you and him could participate in three some what would you say? Most ladies said they would have no part in it because of insecurity and not wanting to see their man or husband with another woman.  A lot of men have this fantasy.  If it prevented them from cheating what would you say?  Upon our many interviews with men a lot of them complain that what the woman did at the start of the relationship sexually she usually doesn't do it two or three or even ten years into the relationship.  They complain even when going to bed they stop wearing lingerie and really don't care how they look when going to bed. Ladies have to remember men are visual and love to look at beauty in whatever form that maybe in.  If your man asks for a three some that may mean he is getting bored.  So you better step it up in the bedroom and turn up the heat! If you are adventurous and secure with yourself you may want to go for it to make him happy.  Don't immediately discard him or curse him out for asking.  It just may mean you have to get your skills up! We will talk to you tomorrow with more tips from men.

Chao

The Ladies of Madison Avene

Congratulations to the Cast of The Ladies of Madison Avenue for another great show!

The Ladies of Madison Avenue: Your First Love, What lessons did they teach you?

The Ladies of Madison Avenue: Your First Love, What lessons did they teach you?: "Do you remember your first love? Your first love is usually a lifetime love, when this love dies it hurts all the way down to your core. Li..."

Your First Love, What lessons did they teach you?

Do you remember your first love? Your first love is usually a lifetime love, when this love dies it hurts all the way down to your core.  Lifetime loves teach you life lessions that you use as the foundation of all other relationships.  If you arent with your first love think about how this person made you feel.  They could do no wrong. Most likely they did you wrong and you forgave them.  As many times as you wanted to walk away you didnt.  This is the type of love that not many experience.  Is it better to have loved and loss then to have never loved at all? 
What lessons did you learn from your first love? Talk to me......

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What is chemistry? is it necessary to have a fulfilling sex life?

Honeymoon Stage

It's nice to see new couples why do they look so happy? I went to dinner tonight and you can always tell the new couples they are all googly eyed and kissing every five minutes.  Thinking there is no one in the room but them.  It's promising and sweet to see but how long does it really last?  At some point the honeymoon ends and reality begins.  When you look at the couples in restaurants that have been together for years the conversation seems short and they stare at their drink menu's for ten minutes and barely look at each other? Would'nt life be beautiful if we could take that honeymoon stage and keep it forever?

Candy - Ladies of Madison Avenue