Sunday, August 25, 2013

The new normal? Weaves; Butts, Boobs

The Ladies of Madison returns this fall with brand new episodes. We have a very interesting topic on plastic surgery and if women are being pressured based on the images we see to fit into a certain look. From extreme weaves to eyelashes to gluteoplasty women are getting it all. Sometimes we have to ask why and why now? What are the reasons that everyone in the club looks like a video vixen nowadays? Are we really that insecure or are we doing all this to invoke the attraction of men. A lot of men I have talked to on my show, feels like its too extreme and they prefer the woman that isn't heavily made up with weaves to their buttocks.  So back to my question; why? A lot of women are insecure and feel that these enhancements are necessary. I feel it's ok to enhance your features but you should maintain your identity. We see all of Hollywood and the many reality show stars and try to emulate what we see instead of being authentic.  Although men are physical soon they see past the aesthetics and attempt to focus on the women herself. Don't believe the hype about finding a rapper or ball player and living happily ever after.  It was interesting to hear the women on the panel and audience talk about the reasons they feel they need to look a certain way.  As women we need to offer more than a pretty face and huge assets. We need to have some substance and class if we want to attract a decent mate. If not you will be attracting men that only want to have sex with you, and that always has an expiration date.  New season starts the first Thursday in October @10:00 pm on local Bcat channels and streaming www.bricartsmedia.org. Visit our Facebook page or tweet us.

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

The Ladies of Madison Avenue: From ex to the next............

The Ladies of Madison Avenue: From ex to the next............: Are you a serial dater or relationship person? Do you need a man in order to feel complete? If so this blog post is for you. After a relatio...

From ex to the next............

Are you a serial dater or relationship person? Do you need a man in order to feel complete? If so this blog post is for you. After a relationship ends how much time do you actually take to exhale before moving on? There is definetly time needed to date yourself.  You have to reflect on what went wrong more important reflect on who you are.  Sometimes when we get so used to caring for our partners we lose ourselves in the process.  We carry baggage from unresolved issues without ever really resolving things. We compare our old partners to the new people we may come across.  There is no way to actively have a relationship with someone until you know what it is like to have a relationship with yourself.  Make yourself available to you. What that means is take time out for you without anything to cloud your emotional being and sex is included.  Sex with an ex is never really a good thing because you arent really moving on are you?  How can you move on or even know if you may want to try again with this person if your vision is being clouded by sex.  Being single is not the end of the world look at it as a hibernation period with yourself.  Another secret a man is not going to complete you.  As women we need to learn to be complete and happy within ourselves and only when this happens will you be able to share your light and love with a partner.  Before you move on to the next take time out for you!

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Wednesday, October 10, 2012

What drives women to have lesbian encounters? New Season 2 episode 2

The new episode of Season Two of the Ladies of Madison Avenue was a hit! We really got in depth with our special guest discussing same sex cheating. We heard from a lesbian woman and her take on female relationships with heterosexual women.  We discussed the fact that the women she has been with were women that had men or were curious or bisexual.  The women talked about the fact that if you have one or two encounters it doesn't make you bi-sexual. We explored the fact that sex with anyone is based on attraction and in my opinion I think if you have an attraction to a woman and want to take it to the next phase of sleeping with her then you are bi-sexual. 

People don't like labels and don't want to be put in specific titles when it comes to this.  We talked about men being selfish and not taking care of their woman's needs on all levels not just sex.  In some instances this pushes women to explore their sexuality with the same sex.  But again I believe a woman's choice has nothing to do with her partner, its her choice based on what's in her heart and who she is attracted to. 

Thanks to everyone that tuned in to us on Brooklyn Public Access and look for this episode next week on YouTube @theladiesofmadisontv/YouTube.

Please join the conversation I am eager to hear what men and ladies think.

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